Models: Attract Women Through Honesty
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- Author：Mark Manson
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Summary
Models is the first book ever written on seduction as an emotional process rather than a logical one， a process of connecting with women rather than impressing them。 It's the most mature and honest guide on how a man can attract women without faking behavior， without lying and without emulating others。 A game-changer。
Reviews
William Yip
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The book could have used an editor as there were missing words here and there。 I would have liked a citation of the research and studies he talked about。 I also disagreed with his advice to lead all the time on a date and to get physical early as they could backfire horribly， especially the latter。 The advice was also common sense: develop your own interests and desired lifestyle and screen out women incompatible with them， speak clearly and look people in the eye， dress well， start small and bu The book could have used an editor as there were missing words here and there。 I would have liked a citation of the research and studies he talked about。 I also disagreed with his advice to lead all the time on a date and to get physical early as they could backfire horribly， especially the latter。 The advice was also common sense: develop your own interests and desired lifestyle and screen out women incompatible with them， speak clearly and look people in the eye， dress well， start small and build up to bolder activities。 That said， the book is a good kick in the pants because even though the advice is common sense， many people do not use it to enrich their lives， they'd rather find justifications to stay as they are。 I liked that he said everyone experiences universal emotions such as loneliness and love including dumb and weird people。 Lastly， the epilogue offered a beautiful way of life: ask "What if it was a gift？" for any bad event， i。e。 find the good in everything。 。。。more
Andi
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Honestly， this took me by surprise。I expected to hate this book。 I found myself disagreeing with about 25% of the things he said。 That's still way less than what I expected。 Most of the things he talks about are simply self-improvement， nothing to do with men and women and seduction。 I really want some of my female friends to read this and tell me what they think of it。 Maybe I'll write a proper review of it at some point。 I've never had a book with this many notes and highlights on my Kindle be Honestly， this took me by surprise。I expected to hate this book。 I found myself disagreeing with about 25% of the things he said。 That's still way less than what I expected。 Most of the things he talks about are simply self-improvement， nothing to do with men and women and seduction。 I really want some of my female friends to read this and tell me what they think of it。 Maybe I'll write a proper review of it at some point。 I've never had a book with this many notes and highlights on my Kindle before， that's for sure。 I'm very surprised of the fact that I think I'd actually recommend this to some selected people。 。。。more
Minh
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nói chung là， thật thà là cha quỷ quái nha các bạn ơi。
Pabloo
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sum weird stuff mostly solid
Yang Zheng
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While searching other Mark Manson books after reading How to Not Give F*ck， I came across this book and was surprised he had written a dating book。 I found the book surprisingly not-sleezy and filled with realistic and honest approaches to improving attraction and dating， with a goal of getting to fulfilling relationships。
Matheus Rhoden
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The best book on topic
Charan Kumar
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Right from my young age， I don't like to discuss my problems with people who are very shallow in their suggestions or advice。 Something like "Don't be sad。 Be Happy" would make me angry while I'm dealing with an emotional problem。 This book is excellent to read just for the sake of depth that it offers on every single page Literally every single page。To this date， attracting women is always projected as a "master manipulation" which could be done only by few guys。 This book easily broke all the Right from my young age， I don't like to discuss my problems with people who are very shallow in their suggestions or advice。 Something like "Don't be sad。 Be Happy" would make me angry while I'm dealing with an emotional problem。 This book is excellent to read just for the sake of depth that it offers on every single page Literally every single page。To this date， attracting women is always projected as a "master manipulation" which could be done only by few guys。 This book easily broke all the unwanted assumptions I had so far。 Especially the discussions and suggestions on Non-neediness。 Especially when thinking about it， I could see how it is applicable to very many things other than dating & relationships。 Take Neediness from any kind of Negotiations， you'll have the upper hand。 Take it out from business deals， you'll have the upper hand。 Take it out from prospective proposals， you'll definitely have the upper hand。 It is as simple as it。I mean this book should be kept in all the college libraries （especially in India） to make the guys stop the "girl chasing" phase in their lives。 Indian teens should understand the power of attraction and girl chasing should not be glorified at all。 "Nothing-to-lose" attitude is the real power in a man and this book "sub-communicates" that if you're closely watching it。The crux of this book on Dating & Relationships talks about being honest with women。 The reason for that is to save time so that you can move on to other women who really going to like you for who you're！ And that's what polarizing， non-neediness， and the assortment effect， are talking about in this book。 Honesty Saves time。Yes， this book has no format of professional writing。 This looks like a popular Quora answer running for two hundred and forty pages but who cares？ The content is extraordinary。 Worth my money and a real driving factor for attraction is inside it。The 4 stars are just because of few things which are not possible in a country like India。 Because the demographics highly impacts the approach sometimes。 Keeping that aside this is majorly a must-read in self-development。I recommend this book to all Indian men between eighteen and thirty-five。 How cool it would be if we stop chasing and start attracting。 Of course， honestly！ 。。。more
Solakidis Panagiotis
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This is not a book with pick up lines and other "Alpha Male" habits。 This a book about you。 If you are looking to have more success with women， attract them， or find a way to start a conversation with them you really need to start working with yourself as step 1。 Be attracted by yourself， if you do not like something about him define how to change it （eg。 weight） This is a book about becoming a better you and support your beliefs and your values。 Of course it is very important to define those va This is not a book with pick up lines and other "Alpha Male" habits。 This a book about you。 If you are looking to have more success with women， attract them， or find a way to start a conversation with them you really need to start working with yourself as step 1。 Be attracted by yourself， if you do not like something about him define how to change it （eg。 weight） This is a book about becoming a better you and support your beliefs and your values。 Of course it is very important to define those values at first。What I liked most is that the way this book is structured， it helps you become a better version of yourself and the same time more attractive to women and people in general。 Highly recommended 。。。more
Yu Gao Fei
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A very different book from what the title suggests， a good read on how to become a better person， have good values， set healthy boundaries， and the true purpose of getting into a relationship: to prosper and achieve collective happiness。
Oliver Griffith
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Any man should read this， regardless of whether he wants to seduce women or not。 Fundamentally， it is about neediness and non-neediness。 The difference between the man who prioritises safe behaviour and validation， and the man who values his opinion first and foremost， who states what he wants despite fear， and who puts himself in vulnerable positions。 I’ve always been a needy person。 It’s never worked out for me。 Ever。 The only way to harden yourself is to fail， and fail， and fail， and still do Any man should read this， regardless of whether he wants to seduce women or not。 Fundamentally， it is about neediness and non-neediness。 The difference between the man who prioritises safe behaviour and validation， and the man who values his opinion first and foremost， who states what he wants despite fear， and who puts himself in vulnerable positions。 I’ve always been a needy person。 It’s never worked out for me。 Ever。 The only way to harden yourself is to fail， and fail， and fail， and still do it。 Because honestly who gives a fuck？ Manson punches you in the gut and knocks you down with blunt facts， things that aren’t pleasant to hear but which you’ve always known， before firmly pulling you back up and dusting you off。 I listened to the audiobook on the bus to Uni and when I walked back home。 It was something to look forward to， and I was reassured by its presence。 May re-listen to some chapters， but the only thing left for me to do now is to say fuck it， tell someone I think she’s cute， that i’d like to get to know her， and get rejected。 And get rejected again。 And again。 And again。 Continuously。 In the future I’ll probably think listening to this was a waste。 But I’ll still do it anyway， I’ll develop my own lifestyle， and I’ll be genuine。Because I could slip down a flight of stairs and break my neck。 Or slip and hit my head on the curb as I balance my backpack and guitar case。 And I won’t care about rejection then。 Fuck it。 。。。more
Amir
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Women are so hard to understand， so they say。Well， not anymore。。。 :）
Denis Antonov
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Ключ к привлекательности — эмоциональная независимость。 А независимость основана на готовности быть уязвимым。 Уязвимость же в свою очередь — по большому счету честность и с собой， и с окружающими。
Paula Analia
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No entiendo cómo lo abro para leer
Jorge Ferreira
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I've got some mixed feeling about this book: it begins as an excellent source of insight into relationships， how someone can improve their love life while improving their own personal life as well， how being rejected is all about incompatibility and not your inherent value as a person and how you should value yourself more by not chasing after someone who doesn't want to be with you。 Perhaps， one of the best insights on this book is the fact that there's nothing superior about a beautiful woman， I've got some mixed feeling about this book: it begins as an excellent source of insight into relationships， how someone can improve their love life while improving their own personal life as well， how being rejected is all about incompatibility and not your inherent value as a person and how you should value yourself more by not chasing after someone who doesn't want to be with you。 Perhaps， one of the best insights on this book is the fact that there's nothing superior about a beautiful woman， all the perceived "value" is the projection of insecurities。 I can't tell you how much this changed my life！However， as most dating coaches do， it starts lightly delving into misogyny not long after， generalizing feminine behaviour and saying things like "women don't know what they want" and putting all women in the same box as if they were some one-dimensional beings who will want to have sex with you if you behave a certain way。 There are also some contradictions that simply can't be ignored in this book， e。g。: - on the first part it says that you should find your own "thing" but， on the second one， it orders the reader to "read more books but not any science fiction";- stating that not showing your interest towards a woman is lying to yourself but， at the same time， telling men to "be cold and distant and show emotions later"。 Of course that prematurely showing TOO MUCH emotion is almost universally unattractive， bottling up emotions because your preconceived notions of what women are is asinine， at best;- basically stating that "one night stands aren't meaningful connections" but bragging about his successes with women， which - you guessed it - were one night stand stories;Overall， I believe that this book is the best approach to dating， from a man's perspective， even though it's aging not very kindly， as society is moving past the perceived gender divide。 。。。more
Alex
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Strongly recommended by Seddit
Yopi
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The best seduction book。 It will break a lot of your mental barrier about dating and women
K
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Mark Manson is a guru🙏
Samuel Lewis
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This has probably been the most useful book I've ever read。 I don't want to say too much so I don't spoil its magic。Link to audiobook:https://goldenaudiobooks。com/mark-man。。。 This has probably been the most useful book I've ever read。 I don't want to say too much so I don't spoil its magic。Link to audiobook:https://goldenaudiobooks。com/mark-man。。。 。。。more
Alex Cook
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Really good book on dating - if you've read No More Mr Nice Guy - it's about building emotional connections from authenticity and confidence rather than manipulation as seen in PUA forums。 Really enjoyed the dating segments and the trinity of unreceptive， neutral and receptive women。 Recommend TSAONGAF and his blog。 Really good book on dating - if you've read No More Mr Nice Guy - it's about building emotional connections from authenticity and confidence rather than manipulation as seen in PUA forums。 Really enjoyed the dating segments and the trinity of unreceptive， neutral and receptive women。 Recommend TSAONGAF and his blog。 。。。more
Rebecca
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While it is aimed toward men， I found a lot of good information in this book for anyone feeling frustrated about the present face of dating。 Mark Manson gives so much practical advice when it comes to the entire process of attracting a woman。
Udit Srivastava
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Some Guilty pleasures sought after a couple of heavy reads :D
Riley
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An outstanding book。I'll admit I was skeptical at first because of the title。 I thought I might be getting myself into some kind of pickup artist pocket guide。However I could not have been more wrong。 This book is amazing。 It contains everything you could possibly want to know about improving your relationships with women。 And most of that， you'll find， involves improving yourself first。 A gem full of practical， actionable advice you can use towards forging a happier， healthier lifestyle and for An outstanding book。I'll admit I was skeptical at first because of the title。 I thought I might be getting myself into some kind of pickup artist pocket guide。However I could not have been more wrong。 This book is amazing。 It contains everything you could possibly want to know about improving your relationships with women。 And most of that， you'll find， involves improving yourself first。 A gem full of practical， actionable advice you can use towards forging a happier， healthier lifestyle and forming quality relationships。 。。。more
Javier García
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One of the best books I've ever read。 One of the best books I've ever read。 。。。more
Jason Laso
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Honestly， there are some good messages for men in this book about being honest and vulnerable when talking to women。 However， I found myself disliking the author the more I read this book， to the point that I stopped about half way through。 Just real sleazy PUA guru vibes。 What's worse is that I came into this book having already read and loved The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck: A Counterintuitive Approach to Living a Good Life， so my opinion of Mark Manson had been high coming into this book。 Honestly， there are some good messages for men in this book about being honest and vulnerable when talking to women。 However， I found myself disliking the author the more I read this book， to the point that I stopped about half way through。 Just real sleazy PUA guru vibes。 What's worse is that I came into this book having already read and loved The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck: A Counterintuitive Approach to Living a Good Life， so my opinion of Mark Manson had been high coming into this book。 The good parts of this book could've been summed up in a blog post （or just read The Subtle Art of NGAF）。 。。。more
Daniil Barysevich
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There is so much wrong with this book that I don't even know where to start。 First， it could have been at least 10x shorter。 There are some good points that are mostly obvious and not related to dating exclusively （like， well， having an interesting life）， but most of the time the author is repeating the same （often questionable） point over and over again using some invented terminology that you forget immediately。 The book claims to be "better than stupid pickup books"， but doesn't seem to have There is so much wrong with this book that I don't even know where to start。 First， it could have been at least 10x shorter。 There are some good points that are mostly obvious and not related to dating exclusively （like， well， having an interesting life）， but most of the time the author is repeating the same （often questionable） point over and over again using some invented terminology that you forget immediately。 The book claims to be "better than stupid pickup books"， but doesn't seem to have any depth to it and jumps to unreasonable conclusions and generalizations about men and women。 Near the end， when he actually got to the "how-to" advice about flirting and sex， it just became cringe and awfully wrong。 1/5 。。。more
Yvad Yves
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One of my favourite books。 This book captivated me and i didn't touch another until i finished it （which is rare of me）Mark really made great points about about dating especially for men。The book may not directly apply in all culture and nothing really apply for all people but it is still a great one。 One of my favourite books。 This book captivated me and i didn't touch another until i finished it （which is rare of me）Mark really made great points about about dating especially for men。The book may not directly apply in all culture and nothing really apply for all people but it is still a great one。 。。。more
Nirmal
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Best seller negli Stati Uniti， di cui sfortunatamente manca una versione italiana， Manson rivoluziona il mondo dei "dating advice" per uomini。 Manson ha esperienza del mondo PUA， questo libro è risposta e superamento del modello di virilità performativa offerto dai PUA。 Come ci spiega Manson nella sua introduzione， il suo obbiettivo è creare un modello di virilità， da cui il titolo， per la nuova generazione di maschi che oggi si trovano spaesati in un mondo egalitario ma che non offre loro una p Best seller negli Stati Uniti， di cui sfortunatamente manca una versione italiana， Manson rivoluziona il mondo dei "dating advice" per uomini。 Manson ha esperienza del mondo PUA， questo libro è risposta e superamento del modello di virilità performativa offerto dai PUA。 Come ci spiega Manson nella sua introduzione， il suo obbiettivo è creare un modello di virilità， da cui il titolo， per la nuova generazione di maschi che oggi si trovano spaesati in un mondo egalitario ma che non offre loro una precisa identità。Models ha cambiato completamente la mia percezione delle relazioni romantiche e me stesso， ha influito anche sulle mie relazioni non-romantiche aiutandomi ad esprimere me stesso。 Credo che qualunque uomo che abbia difficoltà nell'attrare donne debba leggere questo libro。 Il libro è suddivisibile due parti principali: nella prima ci vengono spiegate le basi biologiche dell'attrazione femminile e la strategia di dating di Manson ; la seconda parte offre consigli piu pratici che coinvolgono il nostro lifestyle e aspetto， le nostre ansie psicologiche ed infine le nostre abilità communicative （il "game"， come viene definito dai PUA che però in questo libro è solo il tassello finale posto su fondamenta costruite nei precdenti capitoli）。 Non c'è bisogno di fingere per attrarre una donna come farebbe un PUA， ciò non porterà mai a risultati stabili e soddisfacenti， come ci spiega Manson il lavoro fa fatto su noi stessi 。Leggendo questo libro ho veramente capito il senso dellafrase "Sii te stesso， è questo che piace alle donne" spesso venduta in modo spicciolo e di cui ho sempre diffidato come se fosse un motto da Bacio Perugina。 Manson elabora il concetto e lo fa attraverso diverse tappe， partendo dalla sessualità femminile， prosegue per la psicologia evoluzionistica， passa per la psicologia e conclude nel pratico。 Ho sempre avuto un'ottica pessimistica e diffidente nei confronti dei guru del dating ma questo libro è una gemma， non vende trucchetti ma una strategia per capire sé stessi e come esprimere ciò in modo attraente。 。。。more
Samuel
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There's not much to say about the book other than it could be a great dating reference for young and shy young guys who don't have a clue how to begin and how all this works。 It has many interesting points that other books might not remark， though。 I've been hesitant about reading his other book， The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F%k but since I now know his extremely casual style of writing， I've made up my mind not to read it。 There's not much to say about the book other than it could be a great dating reference for young and shy young guys who don't have a clue how to begin and how all this works。 It has many interesting points that other books might not remark， though。 I've been hesitant about reading his other book， The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F%k but since I now know his extremely casual style of writing， I've made up my mind not to read it。 。。。more
Dan Hughes
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I got recommended this book by a lot of people and after reading and being a fan of Mark Manson's books Subtle art and Everything is fu*ked。 Mark puts everything in such a solid approach， being yourself， not trying to be a different person。 Not just with women， but with everyone！ In a world where people pretend to be someone else， try and act like celebrities or social media influencers， just be yourself！ When it comes to attracting women， Mark messages that being attentive， honest and teaches y I got recommended this book by a lot of people and after reading and being a fan of Mark Manson's books Subtle art and Everything is fu*ked。 Mark puts everything in such a solid approach， being yourself， not trying to be a different person。 Not just with women， but with everyone！ In a world where people pretend to be someone else， try and act like celebrities or social media influencers， just be yourself！ When it comes to attracting women， Mark messages that being attentive， honest and teaches you how to become attractive， and not just in terms of a fresh haircut， rocking a 6 pack ab muscles either。 I would recommend this book to anyone， men and women。 Because we all need to be aware of how to we can sometimes come across to each other without even noticing。 。。。more
Boris
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